Leadership Initiation Training
An initiation into masculine leadership for these times
For brothers who feel the world calling you into leadership—whether in your community, your relationships, or through Heart of Men—this immersive journey moves beyond building of skills to a claiming of your dharma. Through three distinct thresholds, you'll join a carefully curated cohort to uncover collective patterns that block authentic masculine leadership, develop the presence and resource needed to hold transformative space, and ultimately claim what's ready to be lived in service to your unique leadership calling.
If you’re reading this, it’s because we see the gift your spirit of leadership is for Heart of Men and for the world.
Threshold 1: Learning Laboratory for Soul
Fall • 10-week Deep-Dive, weekly • The Personal and Collective Uncovering
We begin with entrainment—synchronizing our rhythms and creating the container for deep collective work. Together, we become a living laboratory for identifying and uprooting the invasive patterns that show up in the masculine—specifically our leadership. Through rigorous study and personal process, we workshop the deep content that wants to move through conscious men in these times.
Threshold 2: Anchoring Attunement
Winter • 4-weeks leading personal groups + bi-weekly support • Stepping In
Skills emerge from being, not just learning. Each man runs his own 4-week group while receiving ongoing support and feedback. This isn't just facilitation practice—it's anchoring the Heart of Men attunement through real-world application. You'll develop the internal resources and presence needed to hold the caliber of space our times are calling for, supported by peer mentorship and expert guidance.
Our in-person will be at the end of Threshold 2, at a location chosen by the group.
Threshold 3: The Initiation
Winter/Spring • 12-week Deep-Dive, weekly • Claiming Your Leadership
The culmination isn't graduation—it's claiming. In this final intensive, we work the core initiatory threads that have emerged from your journey. What in your own being is ready to be fully claimed and lived in service to your leadership? This phase integrates everything you've discovered and practiced, anchoring your unique contribution to the new paradigm of masculine leadership. We’ll end this threshold with a clear vision on where we’re ready to lead and how that can be woven into or supported by Heart of Men and the community.
Commitment & Community
This journey requires full presence: weekly calls during the Deep-Dive chapters, home exercises, and 2x-monthly, 1:1 space-holding exchanges with another brother. You'll be part of a highly skilled, curated group of men genuinely ready for this level (and up-leveling) of work—building not just individual capacity but the interwoven village that can hold the growth of conscious masculinity in our world.
Thomas & Becky came together for the wild experiment of bringing a woman into a men’s space in the 2024-2025 Council. In witnessing how this unfolded and how their gifts, skills, and respective ways of attuning created an even deeper field for the men, it was clear their co-facilitation was being asked to hold the Leadership Initiation Training. For those men who don’t know Becky: she is a dear friend, mentor, and spaceholder for Thomas and many beloveds in Thomas’ life (including his parents and wife). She is a mother, a teacher, a cultural midwife, and a deeply gifted practitioner of the somatic and the soul.
Lead Facilitators: Thomas Doochin & Becky Boisvert
As a full time sexologist and sex coach for men, Taylor is dedicated to helping men create thriving and integrative sex lives that positively impact the world. He masterfully combines esoteric wisdom with practical western exercises, so men get a comprehensive and full-spectrum approach to living as powerful and sexually integrated men. Taylor helps facilitate Liberate your Life(force) with Thomas, and their unique approaches woven together creates a profound space for men to step into their true expression of the masculine. Taylor will be joining/leading 3-4 sessions throughout our journey with a focus on generative somatics and connection to our root.